Graduation Guide From Pre-School to College: Congratulations, Graduate!

by Lian on May 14, 2012

The graduation season is upon us, from Pre-school to College. As parents, it’s our job to mark the passage of time with deep sighs, head shakes, and appropriate gifts. I don’t consider myself a protocol professional, but I am a veteran of too many graduations to count, having grown up in a family of 8 kids who seemed to be constantly graduating from somewhere. In addition, my own children have been through a few ceremonies themselves, so I want to offer a short and sweet graduation handbook.

 Pre-school and Kindergarten

What to expect: Adorable children fidgeting, waving indiscriminately, and singing “This Little Light of Mine“ while all the moms cry.

What to Bring: A camera. Because, trust me, no matter how special their pre-school or kinder years are, they will not remember a thing about the entire experience.  Except, of course, the time little Macaulay fell off the swing and the fire truck had to come.

What to give:  Nothing. Save your money. Really, they will not remember.

What to serve afterwards: Ice cream sundaes.

 

Middle School

What to expect: Awkward children fidgeting, laughing indiscriminately, and singing Green Day’s “ Time of Your Life” while all the moms cry.

What to bring: Your enthusiasm. Because, chances are, your child will be too self-conscious to muster any on his/her own behalf.

What to give: Electronics. If you’ve held off on the cell phone or laptop, now is the time reward your young teen for making it through the worst years of their life. And making you relive the worst years of your life.

What to serve afterwards: Nothing that will get stuck in their braces.

 

High School

What to expect:  The full cap- and- gown experience, with classic cliched speeches by the valedictorian and the most popular kid in class. Extra cheers from the crowd for the quarterback, the class clown, and anyone admitted to an Ivy League college.  Somebody’s family will bring an air horn, despite warnings.  And a small percentage of the class actually sings the words to ” Seasons of Love” from Rent, while all the moms cry.

What to bring: Sunscreen or Umbrella, as it will either be the hottest day of the year or the rainiest.

What to give: Cash.

What to serve afterwards: A lovely chicken salad that you can make ahead and dish up in a jiffy, as your graduate will be in a hurry to get to a better party with friends.

 

College

What to expect: A full day of high-minded speeches, processionals, and conversations about the weather with fellow graduate’s parents but very little interaction with your actual graduate.  When the degree is finally awarded, all the dads cry– tears of joy –as tuition payments end.

What to bring: Younger siblings to act as a scouting party for seats in the shade for the parents and grandparents. Provide scouts with provisions and packing tape to mark off saved chairs, as they will be holding down position for hours. Extra tape can be used later to box up all of graduate’s possessions to put in minivan.

What to give:  Whatever you can afford after four (or five!) years of room and board.

What to serve:  A hearty meal, as everyone will be starved after daylong ceremony.

 

What’s on you graduation schedule this year? Share you advice, tips and gift-giving protocol.

Embracing my chaos, Lian

 

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Kristin May 14, 2012 at 11:31 AM

That is HILARIOUS!~ Love it, Lian. Will hold this in my back pocket for all future gift giving.

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